When you decide to make important changes in your life whether it be weight loss or muscle growth, you will write down a list of goals as a guide to achieve them. Having goals is an important step to reaching an end destination. Without them you can so easy sway off course and get side tracked.
Many people fail mid to long term in reaching their goals. They end up losing their enthusiasm and will power to carry on. Often because events going on in their lives may have distracted them. Or they no longer feel the urge to chase their goal any more because they found interest in something else or even lost interest because they expected quick results.
If you find a goal in life and you want to achieve it, you need to first have the mind-set to accept failure. You must be willing to accept that you will fail along the way. However this doesn't have to end your goal. The mere realisation of being able to allow yourself to fail numerous times gives you the ability to pick yourself up and continue on without having to end the entire goal completely.
When you set out a goal, let’s say it is to lose weight. Make yourself understand that while you’ll do well in the first week or two, you will eventually relapse and have a day where you let yourself down by indulging. However, because you've accepted that you will fail at some points down the road you’ll find it easier to get back on track later. Your goal should be lined with little pit stops of failures. But ultimately you reach the end destination.
To sum up, succeeding with your goals is purely a mind-set. Accepting that you will fail at certain points allows you the freedom to jump straight back on track.